So often Christian people get discouraged by what they believe is a "faith" that doesn't work. The answer may very well be we need to examine what "TYPE" of faith we have.
You are gifted by the Holy Spirit ar re-birth. We need to use our gifts to glorify our Heavenly Father and bring people to Jesus.
So often in life, we come across situations that we need to extend forgivness to others, and we may not realize that forgivness is a journey not an one time event!